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People do change throughout their life, let it be their personalities, their way of life, their dreams, their behaviour, their physical, what else? We do change, whether we realise it or not. Sometimes, we can’t avoid changes that happen in our life because of fate. Another thing is, sometime people change because of people around them. For me, i gladly give advises to my friend who in need and when needed, but to force them to change to the way I want is impossible. I don’t want to make them uncomfortable with their ownself, because changes that happen unwillingly is a tornment to themself. I will show them the right path, but whether to follow it or not, the decision are in their own hand. For me, they don’t need to change themselve to suit me, because I accept the way they are.

For me,  changes start within our ownself.

Change yourself because you want to, not because you have to.

Just The Way You Are- Billy Joel

Don’t go changing, to try and please me
You never let me down before
Don’t imagine you’re too familiar
And I don’t see you anymore

I wouldn’t leave you in times of trouble
We never could have come this far
I took the good times,
I’ll take the bad times
I’ll take you just the way you are

Don’t go trying some new fashion
Don’t change the color of your hair
You always have my unspoken passion
Although I might not seem to care

I don’t want clever conversation
I never want to work that hard
I just want someone that I can talk to
I want you just the way you are.

I need to know that you will always be
The same old someone that I knew
What will it take till you believe in me
The way that I believe in you.

I said I love you and that’s forever
And this I promise from the heart
I could not love you any better
I love you just the way you are.